Sunday, April 7, 2013

David : After God’s own heart


INTRODUCTION: What is the greatest compliment for you???
What is the greatest compliment that you have received?

1.We all like compliments. Mark Twain  said that he could live for a whole month on a good compliment.
As a Christian I can think of no higher compliment than to be described
as a man or woman with a heart after God’s heart.
When that compliment comes from God Himself, we had better sit up and take notice!
Here is a person whose life we can all profit by studying. Such was God’s description of David:
“This is a man after My own heart” (Acts 13:22 ; 1 Sam. 13:14).

2.I would like us to spend time seeking to understand how this humble shepherd boy became a man after God’s Own heart. 
David achieved in his life something that God wants each of His children to achieve.   David became a man after God’s Own heart and a study of his life can teach us how to do that too.

3.Now, David was not perfect. In fact, he was far from it!  He failed, and he failed big, but he kept short accounts with God.  He sinned, but he was quick to confess and he manifested genuine heart repentance. 
David has much that he can teach us about ….Ex. obedience, faith, worship etc..

Acts 13:22, “And when he had removed him, he raised up unto them David to be their king; to whom also he gave testimony, and said, I have found David the son of Jesse, a man after mine own heart, which shall fulfil all my will.”

Series Proposition:
God wants every one of His children to become a person after His Own heart.


Why? Reasons: formerly, God used godly peoplein Israel, In the same way,  God will use us in this present life & future life.

It may be that He has His hand on someone in this very room.  It may be that He is about to choose someone from our number to go to work for Him.  I know He is looking for such people. 
Let’s notice the teachings in this passage as we think about How God Chooses.


1. God Rejects the self-serving & exalts the God-serving.


1 Now the Lord said to Samuel, “You have mourned long enough for Saul. I have rejected him as king of Israel, so fill your flask with olive oil and go to Bethlehem. Find a man named Jesse who lives there, for I have selected one of his sons to be my king.”


When Saul was chosen to be their king, the people were elated.
 He was fine physical specimen, standing head and shoulders taller than anyone else in Israel, 1 Sam. 9:2.
 While he may have been a giant among men, he was a spiritual pygmy!  (dwarf)

“3 Strikes” for King Saul and he’s out:
Ch. 13 Strike #1 - He presumptuously offered a sacrifice(a duty for priests only).
Ch.14 Strike #2- He made an egotistical vow that caused his people to sin &
Almost cost the life of his son Jonathan.
Ch.15 Strike #3 - God told him to destroy the Amalekites, but he spared the king & the best of the livestock.
He tended to overstep his boundaries and was guilty of gross disobedience to the commands of the Lord. 


As a result of Saul’s rebellion, God chooses a new king to rule over Israel.  He chooses a young man named David. 
When God chooses David, He chooses an unlikely candidate for such a lofty and powerful office. 
In God’s choice of David as king, we are allowed to see something of the process God uses when He would choose someone to work for Him.


2. The choosing/finding of the person after his own heart

A.  His Chossing Involves Sovereign Timing & Preparation– It is against the backdrop of rebellion and rejection that God begins the process of choosing a new king for Israel. 
He was ready to raise up a new king and the people had been made ready to accept a new king. 
God worked behind the scenes during those difficult days in Israel’s history to prepare the way for His plan to be fulfilled.   

God is well able to bring His plan to pass.  He will never propose a plan that He is not able to accomplish!  Whether it is a plan to raise up a shepherd boy and make him a king, or whether it is a plan to work out His will in your life; He is well able to see it through, Eph. 3:20; Job 42:2; Luke 1:37; Gen. 18:14.

– Next, Samuel is told where to go to find the new king.  It appears that the Lord had been arranging everything to bring His chosen king into the world at precisely the right moment in history. 
            These events were not accidental!  They were part of a perfect plan, formulated in eternity passed and worked out in time.  This was not coincidence; it was the mighty hand of the Lord!

Sometimes we wonder if God is at work. There are no accidents in life!  Everything that occurs is part of a larger plan.  God is working, often behind the scenes; in ways that we cannot comprehend, to accomplish His plans and His purposes, Rom. 8:28; Isa. 55:8-9; Psa. 37:23; 2 Cor. 4:15-17.  Thank God for the truth that God is in absolute control!


B.  His Choosing Involves Sovereign Execution. Notice the words “I have.”  Many people have great plans and dreams,
but they lack to power to bring them to pass.  Not the Lord!  What He proposes, He is well able to dispose!

      Some people are bothered by the notion that God is in absolute control of all of life.  I, however, find it very comforting!  I know that nothing can happen unless the Father ordains it and that of He ordains it, it is for my good and for His glory. 


2 But Samuel asked, “How can I do that? If Saul hears about it, he will kill me.”
“Take a heifer with you,” the Lord replied, “and say that you have come to make a sacrifice to the Lord.
3 Invite Jesse to the sacrifice, and I will show you which of his sons to anoint for me.”

(2)A risky mission - to anoint a successor, when there was still a sitting king!
(2,3) Telling only what is true & what they need to know doesn’t necessitate telling the whole truth about the matter.
Especially if it is going to put lives into danger. [Not only Samuels, David’s & all of the family]

4 So Samuel did as the Lord instructed. When he arrived at Bethlehem, the elders of the town came trembling to meet him. “What’s wrong?” they asked. “Do you come in peace?”
5 “Yes,” Samuel replied. “I have come to sacrifice to the Lord. Purify yourselves and come with me to the sacrifice.” Then Samuel performed the purification rite for Jesse and his sons and invited them to the sacrifice, too.

6 When they arrived, Samuel took one look at Eliab and thought, “Surely this is the Lord’s anointed!”
Man’s Criteria:

(6)  How strange Samuel would fall for this twice! (judging by outside)
How something is Wrapped doesn’t always show us what’s on the inside.
a) That’s true with people as well!
b) How do you evaluate teenagers? (which David was!) Do you tend to measure them by externals?
c) We can wrap ourselves up in the same packaging every day “
nice clothes, big, friendly demeanor”, yet still be less than what we appear to be.

  v. 6-10–Eliab might have looked pleasing outwardly, but something in his character disqualified him from being the king.

 Abinadab, Shammah.  The seven brothers have passed by and all are rejected by the Lord.

Anyone of them would have possessed the physical requirements to turn heads and rule as a king.  But, none of them possessed the right kind of character traits.

 (Note: God sees what man cannot see!  Even Samuel was impressed with Eliab, but God wasn’t. 
Samuel is still looking at men through human eyes.

We are the very same way.
1.     We see a young man; he’s handsome, well-spoken and intelligent.  We look at him and we say, “That young man would make a fine preacher someday.”  The problem is, we cannot see his heart! 
2.     We see a man; he’s saved, good to his family, been blessed in his work and has some business sense.  We look at him and say, “That man would make a good deacon.”  Again, we can’t see his heart! We judge people by how they strike the eye; God judges them on a far different level. 

That person we think will do great things in the church may not even make a blip on God’s radar screen.  While that one we think will amount to nothing might just be used in a mighty way by the Lord!   God makes His choices based not on what He sees about our outward characteristics, but on what He sees within the content of our hearts.)


7 But the Lord said to Samuel, “Don’t judge by his appearance or height, for I have rejected him. The Lord doesn’t see things the way you see them. People judge by outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”

God’s Criteria #1. The heart/ character

B.  v. 7   God tells Samuel that He does not look at the physical attributes of a man.  God looks at the character of a man’s heart.  Eliab, for instance, caught the old prophet’s eye; but he reveals the character of his heart in the next chapter.  There, we discover that Eliab is critical, jealous and negative, 1 Sam. 17:28.  He may have been a big man externally, but he was a baby inside!  He was not the kind of man God could use for His glory!

 (Note: This is a lesson the church needs to learn today.  When we look for leaders, we often seek those who possess certain characteristics that we think spell success and ability.  We look for people of influence, power, intelligence and means.  God, however, looks for people of integrity and character.
 He wants people who are faithful and holy.  What a contrast!  God is not nearly as impressed with people’s achievements as we are.  He is not concerned about the beauty of our outward man.  He is caught up in the condition of our heart!

            As God looks at your life, what does He see?  Does He see a handsome face, a pleasing physical appearance and a well-kept, well-dressed body?  No, He sees your heart.  He sees the real you! 
But, here is the real question: Does God see a heart that He can use?  Or, does He say about your life the same thing He said about Eliab, “I have refused him?”  What does God see in your heart?

The Message translation of verses 23-27 says Keep vigilant watch over your heart; that’s where life starts.
1. God looks at the heart!
a) God not only Sees our hearts but searches them (1 Chron.28:9 “… For the Lord sees every heart and knows every plan and thought…);
b) We think we know our own heart...but we don’t
(Jer.17: 9 “The human heart is the most deceitful of all things, and desperately wicked. Who really knows how bad it is?

2. Since God looks at he heart...does that effect the way you see yourself ?
How  Does that influence/ affect  your life?

1. Rather than embracing or rejecting others based on their Status or lack of it, their wealth or poverty, their beauty or plainness, their cleverness or their gullibility, we should look at their character.
2. We should look for the values they not only Profess but live out.
3. If we took the time to do this, smooth talk & charming smiles would be less likely to glaze our judgment.

8 Then Jesse told his son Abinadab to step forward and walk in front of Samuel. But Samuel said, “This is not the one the Lord has chosen.”
9 Next Jesse summoned Shimea but Samuel said, “Neither is this the one the Lord has chosen.” 10 In the same way all seven of Jesse’s sons were presented to Samuel. But Samuel said to Jesse, “The Lord has not chosen any of these.”

(8-10) So Samuel checks the whole batting line up.
1. But the whole bench was out, before they were in.
2. Come to find out, there was 1 more son...who wasn’t even in the stadium!

We have much to learn from God!
a) We need to do what Samuel did: look to the Lord for discernment & wait for His choice,
whether that’s a business partner, a mate, or a leader.

Have you attended one of your H.S. Reunions?
1. How were the “Most likely to succeeds” doing?
- Often the one’s we didn’t think would even make it out of senior year, were doing quite well!


11 Then Samuel asked, “Are these all the sons you have?”

“There is still the youngest,” Jesse replied. “But he’s out in the fields watching the sheep and goats.”
“Send for him at once,” Samuel said. “We will not sit down to eat until he arrives.”

God’s criteria #2   3. God notices the Nobodies - who are really the Somebodies after all.
                              God’s Solutions are usually strange & simple...be open. God’s Spirit, Harp player


(11) Jesse’s attitude toward David displays
2 mistakes parents often make:
1. 1st, he didn’t appreciate each of his children equally.
a) Well yes, there is 1 more, but he Just watches sheep!
2. 2nd, he failed to cultivate a mutual respect among the brothers.
a) Did the family pick up the attitude?
Based on Eliab’s comments to David in ch.17:28...you bet!

 Parenting 101:
The greatest contribution we can make in the lives of our
children (aside from introducing them to the Savior) is to help them see their worth!
a) They need to know they have something unique to offer, just like every other member of the family.
b) Do we communicate to our children the message that they might be the ones God
will choose to use in a special way?
Do we play favorites, keeping some in the field w/the sheep?
Do we see ourselves favoring the child in your family who is most like you or who has qualities you admire?
Do we overlook or slight the child who is least like us or who has qualities that annoys us?
(1) Children are built w/ high-frequency emotional antennas.
(2) Ask the Lord what He sees in your children. Let Him show you their hearts. Write down the unique traits that He specially values.
Then write a letter to your children, sharing w/each one what God has impressed on your heart.
(3) If we will Robe your children w/a sense of value, Crown them w/the jewels of self-worth, they will, when they are
anointed by the sweet oil of the Spirit, accomplish regal things for the King.

1. In ancient near eastern societies they Always gave privilege to firstborn sons.
2. God regularly chose people who were
Overlooked & Ignored by others, to do his most special work!

David is the youngest and he is said to be with the sheep.  He is so insignificant within the family that he is not even summoned with the rest of the boys, but he is left out of the feast and the sacrifice. 
He is out there doing the job of a humble servant.  In fact, when he is mentioned by his father, he is not even called by his name; he is simply called “the youngest.”  When he walks in, Samuel sees a handsome, young man; bright-eyed, with the blush of your in his cheeks.  God tells Samuel to anoint this one, for this is him!  The one rejected and passed over by the others is the very one picked by the Lord

      (Note: Again, we must be careful how we assess those around us.  We look at people tonight and think we know who God will use and what He will do with them.  Friend, you never know!  God often passes over the ones others would choose and calls those we would never have imagined.  God excels in taking nobodies and making some bodies out of them!  When God went after a man after His Own heart, He did not go to the palaces, the temples or the places of influence, wealth and power.  God chose the most unlikely person in the most unlikely of places.  The key to being used of Him is possessing the right kind of heart!)

12 So Jesse sent for him. He was dark and handsome, with beautiful eyes.
And the Lord said, “This is the one; anoint him.”

In The year 1020 BC  in a secluded field in Bethlehem, God was raising up a youth named David.
The youngest son of a poor farmer from the tiny hamlet. 
David was a young man who was not even respected by the members of his own family. 
He was a nobody living in a family of nobodies.  A “nobody” nobody noticed.
A somebody who would change Israel's course forever. Because while the people saw only a shepherd, God saw a king.
God notices the Nobodies - who are really the Somebodies after all.


13 So as David stood there among his brothers, Samuel took the flask of olive oil he had brought and anointed David with the oil. And the Spirit of the Lord came powerfully upon David from that day on.
Then Samuel returned to Ramah.

(13) Samuel goes home...job was done there. But how would the little shepherd boy get
from the field to the throne?
Not his responsibility, not his problem, not his job.
1. God would see to it!
Imagine one minute he’s swatting flies in the pasture, & the next he’s getting oil poured
over is head & told that he’ll be Israel’s future king.

1. What’s also cool is David didn’t run out to try on crowns,
Or run out to buy a red chariot to ride through Bethlehem announcing his new position of royalty.
2. His Humility shone like...the king-elect...went back to the sheep fields until God’s hand moved him onto the throne.
3. Nothing has changed...yet everything has changed!

Summary: Other indications as to why God made the choice He did in the life of David.

A. v. 11-12  God Chooses Those Who Are Ready –David is a picture of that believer who keeps his heart in a state of readiness.  He does not know when the Lord might call him so he stays ready at all times.  That is the kind of person God is looking for today as well.  God does not use dirty vessels, but He uses those which are clean and ready for His call.

B.  v. 11  God Chooses Those Who Are Reliable – When God calls David, He finds him faithfully doing what he has been told to do.  He is keeping the sheep.  He is doing a dirty, lonely job; but he does it because it is what he has been assigned to do.  After he is anointed, he goes back to his flock, v. 19.  Why? Because that is what he does!  Even after he is called to Jerusalem to play for King Saul, v. 23, he returned to keep his father’s sheep, 17:15.  Why? Because that is what he does!  David was given an assignment and he carried it out faithfully.  He even placed his life on the line to protect those sheep, 17:34-37.  When Jesse looked at David he saw the youngest of his sons.  His brothers saw a little brat, 17:28.  Samuel saw a cute little boy, 16:12.  But, when God looked at David, He saw integrity, faithfulness, responsibility and character.  Others saw a nobody, God saw a king!

            Friend, if you want to be used by the Lord, let me encourage you to be faithful where you are.  The best thing you can do is grow where you are planted.  Allow God to develop your character, your integrity, your faithfulness and your sense of responsibility in the ordinary, mundane events of life, Matt. 25:21.  Be ready and be reliable, for you never know when the call of God will come.  He knows where you are.  He knows how to find you.  He knows how and when to open all the right doors in your life.  Just be faithful and walk with Him.  In His time, He will use you for His glory.

C.  v. 13  God Chooses Those Who have a close relationship w/ him – When Samuel anointed David and perhaps whispered God’s plan in his ear; this was not David’s first encounter with God.  No doubt David had seen the glory of God written in the heavens and His power manifested in the universe, Psa. 19.  David had witnessed God’s tender care for His people in his own relationship to his flocks.  This is evident in Psalm 23 and others which reveal the heart of David while he was still a young shepherd.  He might have walked onto the public stage in 1 Samuel 16; but David had been walking with the Lord for quite some time!  Listen to David’s own testimony in 1 Sam. 17:37; 45.

            Here’s the point, God calls those who know Him!  He chooses His vessels from among His redeemed ones.  Those who know Him in a faith relationship; who live clean lives; who are ready, reliable and available are candidates to be used by the Lord.  Does that describe you tonight?


Conclusion:
By the grace of God,
1.David became the greatest king in the history of the nation of Israel. 
2.He also became and ancestor of the Lord Jesus Christ. 
 During his life, he received great promises and remarkable blessings from the hand of God. 
3.But, greatest of all, David became a man after God’s Own heart. 
This was not David’s own testimony, but this is the testimony of God, Acts 13:22.


Acknowledgement: Resources- Brian Bell, Alan Carr & others

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